I've been through both stages: coding was my life, I had a rack server with all sorts of cool things running on it; then, after I moved states, it sat in a box for a year, and I couldn't stomach the thought of working on tech stuff after my day ended. I started working on small engines, I learned to weld, got interested in small-scale renewable energy solutions (ok, so a little bit tech), and occasionally I'll touch a personal dev project, now.
What do you do to unwind? Does it still relate in some way to tech (e.g., problem solving)? Do you have extremely non-tech hobbies that you'd love to do for a living?