I'm sharing an epiphany. I hope I could be as smart as this guy.
part1: http://hvren.wordpress.com/2010/06/24/to-whatever-self-be-true/
part2: http://hvren.wordpress.com/2010/07/08/to-whatever-self-be-true-part-2/
part3: http://hvren.wordpress.com/2010/07/11/to-whatever-self-be-true-part-3-the-formula/